Your ability to have, your havingness.
What is it?
How much can you have?
Can you adjust it?
The word havingness is your ability to have,
the quality of what you can have, in your life. It breathes, and changes as you do.
I first heard this word at the Psychic Institute, where I trained for years, as a clairvoyant, and also as a minister. They use this word to describe “The
state of your ability to have”.
It is a wonderful tool, to be able to learn about yourself from looking at it, and to manipulate it, in order to heal yourself, and to enjoy life more!
This is our one “Wild and precious life”, and we deserve to live it to the fullest, to squeeze every drop out of this sweet juicy orange, that we’ve been given, and for the short time that we have it.
Well, the first thing is to start from wherever you are! The process of lifting it will teach you so much about yourself, your habits, patterns, clarity of your space, emotions, gratitude, even if you feel safe enough to have!
Havingness is a product of loving yourself, and the life around you. It is a product of being present, of owning your creations, and being responsible for this life of yours. Emotions like guilt, shame, even old, worn out anger, or even fear, can affect it.
What does help is to be in gratitude, of what’s around you, and of what you do have. Feel gratitude for your life, your relationships, and the immense beauty of this world. If you are stuck in something, then just stay simple, and find appreciation.
Appreciation for the hummingbird flying towards the flower, or the cat purring gently, by your feet, or the child’s laughter you hear in the distance. This can get the energy flowing. Being in gratitude will help your havingness, because it will connect you with love. First love, then, eventually, self love. It will be in your energetic field, and will help you, immensely. The universe will hear you, and also, you will feel safe.
Another important ingredient is to start to stretch the walls of your comfort zone. Try new things. Take risks. What happens, is that we have grown accustomed to the way it has been, and having more involves change, whether it is by changing your perceptions of yourself, or of others, or of what is really possible. This is huge, for this is part of creating miracles for yourself. Even the asking of “What are the possibilities?” involves being open, and stretching out of your comfort bubble.
Taking action is important. When we look at, and “work the energy” of our havingness, action is the last step, although highly important. Yes, you need to take action to achieve, you may need to ask for help, or work hard, or take some big risks. All of that wonderful reaching will help your self-esteem, and self worth as well!
It may be a challenge for you, as you may find you have some secret contracts with yourself to stay small, or not to have, as it keeps you limited, in a comfortable way.
It does involve leaving your comfort zone, and into vulnerability, shaking up the status quo, and other peoples pictures of who you are. You may find disapproval, criticism, failure, exposure.
And of course, change. And that can be scary, that fear of the unknown. Once we see where we have resigned ourselves to our small, comfortable, low havingness bubble, it will help us to explore the boundary of our bubble, and to work on stretching it, and raising the ceiling of our havingness. How much more can you have, before something comes up? Maybe your inner voice has some important concerns to share with you.
Remembering to be in gratitude, and in self-love, and appreciation for what you already have, you may wish to do a ritual of honoring, or of cleansing, of forgiving, and clearing, in order to have more. Is your plate already too full? Maybe something must die, in order for something new to be born.
Trying new things, giving things (including your time) to others, and treating yourself well, shows yourself, and the universe, that you can have more. Intention to create is powerful, as your intention, your word, is powerful beyond belief!
But, if your havingness is low, because of guilt, or if you are matching your low havingness friends (so they will love you?), or you fear taking the leap into the unknown, you may be able to create something, but you will destroy it. You will not be able to actually have it. Have you ever done that, with a vacation, or a purchase, or even a relationship?
Ooops, time to learn something, forgive yourself, and move on.
Starting to have that conversation with the edge of our havingness bubble, as to what is possible, and what it will take to have more. What are the possibilities?
Can I see myself having that?
Sometimes it means to just do it. Just press “Purchase” on that plane ticket to a new adventure. Say yes, to that grand scheme. Like a refreshing plunge into clean crisp waters! Take the plunge!!
Other times, you must take smaller steps toward your higher havingness, to acclimate yourself toward a larger life.
We haven’t even looked at asking for help, from the seen, and also unseen worlds, and allowing. Just. Allowing, and being able to receive. We'll look at more on this topic, next month.
Leaving your comfort zone is tantamount, though, to your higher havingness, because outside of that, is where the magic happens.
Love yourself, and your one wild, and precious life,
Here’s to having your full potential.
How good can it get?
Helena
What is it?
How much can you have?
Can you adjust it?
The word havingness is your ability to have,
the quality of what you can have, in your life. It breathes, and changes as you do.
I first heard this word at the Psychic Institute, where I trained for years, as a clairvoyant, and also as a minister. They use this word to describe “The
state of your ability to have”.
It is a wonderful tool, to be able to learn about yourself from looking at it, and to manipulate it, in order to heal yourself, and to enjoy life more!
This is our one “Wild and precious life”, and we deserve to live it to the fullest, to squeeze every drop out of this sweet juicy orange, that we’ve been given, and for the short time that we have it.
Well, the first thing is to start from wherever you are! The process of lifting it will teach you so much about yourself, your habits, patterns, clarity of your space, emotions, gratitude, even if you feel safe enough to have!
Havingness is a product of loving yourself, and the life around you. It is a product of being present, of owning your creations, and being responsible for this life of yours. Emotions like guilt, shame, even old, worn out anger, or even fear, can affect it.
What does help is to be in gratitude, of what’s around you, and of what you do have. Feel gratitude for your life, your relationships, and the immense beauty of this world. If you are stuck in something, then just stay simple, and find appreciation.
Appreciation for the hummingbird flying towards the flower, or the cat purring gently, by your feet, or the child’s laughter you hear in the distance. This can get the energy flowing. Being in gratitude will help your havingness, because it will connect you with love. First love, then, eventually, self love. It will be in your energetic field, and will help you, immensely. The universe will hear you, and also, you will feel safe.
Another important ingredient is to start to stretch the walls of your comfort zone. Try new things. Take risks. What happens, is that we have grown accustomed to the way it has been, and having more involves change, whether it is by changing your perceptions of yourself, or of others, or of what is really possible. This is huge, for this is part of creating miracles for yourself. Even the asking of “What are the possibilities?” involves being open, and stretching out of your comfort bubble.
Taking action is important. When we look at, and “work the energy” of our havingness, action is the last step, although highly important. Yes, you need to take action to achieve, you may need to ask for help, or work hard, or take some big risks. All of that wonderful reaching will help your self-esteem, and self worth as well!
It may be a challenge for you, as you may find you have some secret contracts with yourself to stay small, or not to have, as it keeps you limited, in a comfortable way.
It does involve leaving your comfort zone, and into vulnerability, shaking up the status quo, and other peoples pictures of who you are. You may find disapproval, criticism, failure, exposure.
And of course, change. And that can be scary, that fear of the unknown. Once we see where we have resigned ourselves to our small, comfortable, low havingness bubble, it will help us to explore the boundary of our bubble, and to work on stretching it, and raising the ceiling of our havingness. How much more can you have, before something comes up? Maybe your inner voice has some important concerns to share with you.
Remembering to be in gratitude, and in self-love, and appreciation for what you already have, you may wish to do a ritual of honoring, or of cleansing, of forgiving, and clearing, in order to have more. Is your plate already too full? Maybe something must die, in order for something new to be born.
Trying new things, giving things (including your time) to others, and treating yourself well, shows yourself, and the universe, that you can have more. Intention to create is powerful, as your intention, your word, is powerful beyond belief!
But, if your havingness is low, because of guilt, or if you are matching your low havingness friends (so they will love you?), or you fear taking the leap into the unknown, you may be able to create something, but you will destroy it. You will not be able to actually have it. Have you ever done that, with a vacation, or a purchase, or even a relationship?
Ooops, time to learn something, forgive yourself, and move on.
Starting to have that conversation with the edge of our havingness bubble, as to what is possible, and what it will take to have more. What are the possibilities?
Can I see myself having that?
Sometimes it means to just do it. Just press “Purchase” on that plane ticket to a new adventure. Say yes, to that grand scheme. Like a refreshing plunge into clean crisp waters! Take the plunge!!
Other times, you must take smaller steps toward your higher havingness, to acclimate yourself toward a larger life.
We haven’t even looked at asking for help, from the seen, and also unseen worlds, and allowing. Just. Allowing, and being able to receive. We'll look at more on this topic, next month.
Leaving your comfort zone is tantamount, though, to your higher havingness, because outside of that, is where the magic happens.
Love yourself, and your one wild, and precious life,
Here’s to having your full potential.
How good can it get?
Helena
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