SPIRIT IN JOY!
  • Home
  • About
    • What to expect in a reading
    • Testimonials
  • Store
    • Store
    • Types of readings available
  • Blog
  • Contact us!
  • Classes and Upcoming Events!
  • Shamanic healing

Trusting your Process, and your True Self

3/3/2018

1 Comment

 
Picture
It's all about trusting your process. That helps you to relax into what it is you are doing, and, while doing your best, giving yourself the benefit of the doubt. Also, giving the universe the benefit of the doubt, since the universe knows so much more than you do. Remember also, that you know so much more than you think you do!
This is how I like to think of the process of co-creation. You can see yourself as surfing (or bellyboarding, if you don't know how to surf) in this vast, ocean. You can feel, and sense, the pull of the current, and the waves of the ocean. You have an intention, you have your tools, and you have your energy, your capable spirit, even your past life or past time information, to help you.
Your physical body and it's effort is important. Keeping it strong and happy, or at least motivated, and slightly amused, will help you in your quest.
But it's that sense of trust, and it's ability to keep you both relaxed, and aware, is what we are addressing right now.
I have just come back from a very powerful shamanic training, with one of my teachers, Betsy Bergstrom, in the compassionate depossession of spirits. Some of those "suffering souls" were once human, and some never were. It is an intense, and sacred process. And there are powerful, and yet both sacred, and amazing results, for all parties involved. 
It can be quite intense, and you need to be both centered, and protected.
One thing that I will do, in the set up of this process, is to become aware of my "True Self". Whether that is called my I AM Presence, or my God Self, or my True Self. This is the self that is radiant, expansive, that cannot be wounded, corrupted, or changed in any way. And once I have connected to that part of me,  and with my higher heart, I start to allow, and trust in the process.
​You are that self. You have access to that True Self, too.
Picture

It is almost too simple. To be your radiant self, to connect with it, and to become it, connects you to all your tools and resources, with no effort.
It is the smaller you, the ego you, the fear based you, that lacks trust; it wants a guarantee. By stepping into the light of your own being, that clear knowing, or cognizance (it's located in your 7th chakra, one of your tools, one of the "clairs" that you have, like clairvoyance, clear sight, and clairsentience, clear feeling), comes into play.

This is one of the places that I read from, as a psychic. I may "see" things with my clairvoyance, but my "claircognizance" makes sense of it all, makes it whole. I have learned to trust that place, to get answers.
BE STILL, AND KNOW.

When creating something in your life, or, in creating your life, the tool of trust, can help you immensely. Either in trusting the universe, or in your true self. Even in the law of attraction, allowing yourself to feel the vibration of the word "trust" in your being, allows you to relax a bit, take a breath, and allow. It may feel like the opposite of control.
How strange, that most of our life, and our world, we cannot control. Most people see that as a sense of not having power. Power=control. Leaning on another person, or an Angel, or a friend, or guide, or the universe itself, seems the antithesis of creation.
But sometimes to stop struggling, to not know, to allow yourself to be led, to be shown, is the key. There is Grace in that. It is the secret password, of your next step. The previous article speaks on this, on Grace, and on letting go.

Listen to your dreams, for they are smarter than you.
​

There can be, for us, some wounding surrounding trust, either from people that have abused ours, or from a notion that the universe did not have our back. Many of us have at some point, turned our backs on that place of trusting the universe. In this place, I may interject the word "God'. I have seen so many people turned away from their god, from their own light, because they felt abandoned, or let down, when they trusted.
there can be a lot of pain there. Present time, and past time pain, and past life pain, or possibly ancestral trauma and pain. It is worth doing the healing work if it seems insurmountable, to go back and release or heal the old, old patterns. For now, though, breathing, grounding, centering, relaxing, and saying hello to and accessing your True Self, and going into a place of co-creation, with a loving universe, can be a goal worth reaching. Not only will it bring peace of mind, and immense healing, but you'll be working with the laws of the universe, instead of against them.
Not only will your emotions, and your mind experience the shift, but your body will, too. It's a wonderful, expansive energy, to trust, and to know. The opposite can be a cosmic isolation, that you have to do everything yourself, effort, effort, and the world is out to get you.
Even if there is past trauma, the expression of it can get you out of isolation, and to a place of healing, of being heard, and that you matter.


Gabor Maté, a family physician, and also a medical coordinator of the palliative care unit of the Vancouver Hospital, talks about and has studied clinical cases for years, how a people who can't trust, or express their authentic selves, and go into seclusion about it, has a much greater risk of getting sick, with illnesses such as cancers, and autoimmune diseases. Some people become sick from years of not trusting (that you are safe while sleeping, for example), long after the initial trauma has past. He shows that not the trauma, but the lack of its expression, raises the risk of illness. If you are interested in his findings, I'll post the link of his talk here.

Now, I'm not saying don't participate in creating your amazing reality, with slow and steady effort, hard work, and love, and passion, and (of course),asking for help. What I am saying, is to realize the wisdom of the universe, and to allow it to unfold.
You cannot control everything, and it will break you to try.


I am saying to be curious.
To be open, to allow.

I am saying to trust.
Don't quit, in the middle of what you are creating, when it gets tough,
the struggle will not last. 

Trust yourself, hold the vision, trust the process.
Do you remember the last time that you did trust, and it was ok, even better than you could've planned?

Love the process. Be in that place of absolute surrender, once you have set your intention in motion. Don't worry so much about the "how" of it.
Be in certainty. And clear knowing (that place, in your 7th chakra, on the top of your head, where you connect to divine intelligence).
You can feel fear, and you can learn from exploring it, but you don't need to match the energy of it. Same with the energy of isolation, either personal, or cosmic.

Trust in the divine timing of things (that can be hard for me). Trust in the power of love! 
Meditation, and mindfulness help you to get to the quiet place where there is little mind chatter. It's a good practice, becoming a clear vessel, to be still, and know.
Trust is a belief, and it is also a tool, as is asking for help. And getting out of your own way, is a part of that. It is allowing.

Trusting the process, tapping in to your True Self, and allowing yourself to be a co-creator in your own life, is like surfing the waves in the ocean; it involves practice. It's the art of knowing when to effort, and when to let go. 

                                               HelenaMazzariello/Spiritinjoy copyright 2018
Picture
1 Comment
Veronica link
4/16/2021 08:05:19 pm

In today's world, many people are accommodating others' needs, which often leads to us only revealing what's expected of us. This, in turn, renders us unable to differentiate what our true selves are. Thus, failing to live as a distinguished person with a sense of purpose. When you can't sense your own needs, you wind up feeling empty. You'll be floating through life without really feeling or fulfilling anything.

Reply

Your comment will be posted after it is approved.


Leave a Reply.

    Author

    Helena Mazzariello is an artist, clairvoyant, healer, and teacher, in gratitude and joy to be playing the game of life with her friends.

    Archives

    November 2022
    February 2022
    December 2021
    October 2021
    September 2021
    August 2021
    July 2021
    March 2021
    February 2021
    December 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    March 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    May 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    October 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    April 2014
    December 2013
    September 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    November 2012
    October 2012
    September 2012
    August 2012
    July 2012
    June 2012
    May 2012
    April 2012
    March 2012
    February 2012
    January 2012
    December 2011
    November 2011
    October 2011
    September 2011
    August 2011
    July 2011
    May 2011

    Categories

    All
    ABRACADABRA!
    Accountability
    Acknowledge What Is
    Ancestral Lineage
    And Courage
    Angels And Guides Can Smooth The Path
    Another Successful House Healing!
    Appreciation
    Archangel Chamuel
    Archangel Michael
    Asking For Help
    A Spirit To Spirit Hello!
    Before Creating
    Being A Helper
    Being Of Service...the Work
    Being Open To Adventure
    Being Present
    Being Your True Self
    Be In The Center Of Your Head!
    Building Healthy Boundaries
    Changes
    Clearing Unconscious Energy
    Co Create Change
    Co-creating With Your Angels
    Comfort And Joy
    Completion
    Courage
    Courage Means Heart
    Create An Autumn Ritual!
    Creating
    Creating Your Life
    Daily Ritual
    Dance With Change
    Death And Life
    Effortless Synchronicity
    Fulfilling A Dream From The Past
    Gentle Strength
    Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone
    Gratitude
    Grief
    Healing
    Healing Vs Fixing
    Higher Purpose
    Higher Self
    Holding The Space
    How Do You Change Things?
    How To Deal With Haters
    Inspired Action
    Law Of Attraction
    Letting Go
    Letting Go Of Routine
    Love Vs Fear
    Luck
    Luck Favors The Prepared
    Magical Sedona
    Managing Your Inner Gremlin
    Meditating
    Meeting Spirit- The Lenape
    Metamorphosis
    Motivated By Love
    Neutrality
    New Beginnings
    New Year
    Not Crazy!
    Open To Possibilities
    Open To Receive
    Out Of Control Healer?
    Permission To Create
    Possibilities
    Present Time
    Pulling Back Your Energy
    Readings And Healings
    Regroove Those Neurons
    Reinvention
    Relax It's Just Energy
    Remembering Who I Am
    Saint Germain
    Setting The Energy
    Shedding Your Old Skin
    Soul Retrieval And Integration
    Sovereignty
    Sovereignty In Flux
    Spirit
    Steps In Creating Change
    Supreme Being
    Taking Risks
    Taking The Plunge
    Taking The Risk
    Thank You For Your Light
    That's Not Your Energy
    That Space
    The Care And Feeding Of Your Shadow Self
    The Care And Feeding Of Your Spirit Guides
    The New Changes You Want To See
    Transfiguration
    Trusting In Yourself
    Trusting The Universe
    Trusting Your Heart
    Using Your Own Anger To Heal Yourself
    Using Your Tools
    Vortex Healing
    What If?
    Where The Magic Happens
    You Have The Tools To Create
    You May Be Psychic
    Your Beliefs Create Your Reality
    Your Energetic Dashboard
    Your Inner Garden Meditation


    RSS Feed